Quick recap - the last time we were together, I stated that I don't do resolutions... but I do make plans. So it's time to take action and get the plan started. Something I really want to do this year is make more time for ME. I know, I know! If I had a nickel for every guru who told you that "me time" was the answer to all the world's problems, well, I'd have enough money to BUY "me time"!
But seriously, I really do need to work on that. I just found a list on my computer of "Things to Do When I Finish My Masters". I haven't done any of them. None. Zip. Zero. Nada. A year and a half of ZILCH. Well, not that I've done nothing for all that time. I keep busy. I believe that God gifted me with a love of people and a servant nature. This has translated into a job teaching young children the joys of music, leading those children in performances, volunteering extra hours after school so kiddos can have a choir, leading church children's choir (yes, more small children singing), teaching youth Sunday School, singing in the choir and praise team,going on a mission project, leading two new mission projects, participating in a teachers' sorority, volunteering with Relay for Life, leading the talent show, being a wife and mother (ie: cooking, cleaning, laundry, groceries, guitar lessons, homework, playdates, sleepovers, haircuts, doctors, dentists).... tired yet? I sure am! Sometime in there, I managed to pull off getting that masters degree - usually from 9pm-2am.
Time to implement THE PLAN. Step 1: Back out of some commitments. Done. Did it hurt? Yep. Am I sorry? Time will tell, but as of right now the answer is a resounding "NO", which is a word that I just learned. Step 2: Cut out some of the technology addiction that wastes what precious little free time I have. Last night, I closed my laptop and watched a new show with JC. I even played some X-Box with both my guys. (yes, that is still technology. but it was family technology. hush.) Tonight, though, I took a big step. I deleted all of the games that I play on Facebook. No more farming. Life on the Frontier is over. I lost the Mafia War. I wonder if I'll have the shakes tomorrow? Step 3: Find a hairdresser and get there asap. My current mane looks exactly like that - something that should be stuck to the rear of a horse. I already have a young man at church calling me "Grandma" and I currently have the white hair to back it up. (love you, Bunky!)
There are a lot more steps, but Rome wasn't built in a day.
P.S. Did you know that if you type "Feliz Año Nuevo", you wish someone a "Happy New Year"... but if you don't have a tilde and type "Feliz Ano Nuevo", you wish someone a "Happy New Anus"? Yeah................ awkward. For the record, I apologized to, well, pretty much everyone on Facebook. I'm an idiot. :)
Candi,
ReplyDeleteI don't do farmville anymore....my question is, what happens to all of the animals? I am afraid to even look! .....and yes, I do realize that they are "just pretend". Hope this all works well for you, family time is always (well, almost) good! Hahaha, have a great day and if you get the shakes, eat chocolate, or did you give that up too?!
Debbie
"I believe that God gifted me with a love of people..."
ReplyDeleteI wish to challenge that statement.
kw
Haven't I been telling you that for ummmm.... just about as long as I've known you! Glad you are finally doing something for YOU! LOVE YOU!
ReplyDeleteAngela!
Debbie - I HATE thinking about all my animals. And I know they're fake, too... but I think they'll miss me. :(
ReplyDeleteKW - I'll fix that! I think God gifted me with a love of people, except those that are habitually mean to me and call me old. Better?
Angela - I LOVE YOU TOO!!!